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Valentine’s Day Is Here! What’s Your Money Language?

Have you ever heard of the five love languages?

They include: Acts of service, Quality time, Words of affirmation, Physical touch and Receiving gifts.

These five concepts are the most common ways people give and receive love. When people understand and act on the love languages of their significant other, their relationship benefits. When that understanding isn’t there… let’s just say the love turns sour.

Like having a preferred love language, each individual has a preferred way to manage their finances. This is referred to as your money language or money personality.

Check your Money Language or Money Personality here!

A mutual understanding within a relationship of individual money management tendencies, strengths, and weaknesses helps avoid tension, resentment, and financial pain.

Valentine’s Day Is Here: How To Collaborate and Support Your Significant Other Financially.

Open communication:
Discussing financial goals, concerns, and spending habits openly and honestly with your partner. 

Shared responsibility:
Actively participating in managing finances together, including budgeting, savings and debt repayment. 

Acts of service:
Taking on financial tasks like bill paying or researching deals to benefit your partner. 

Thoughtful gifts:
Providing gifts that align with their financial needs or desires, like contributing to a retirement fund or paying for a course they want to take. 

Supporting their dreams:
Investing in their future goals, such as helping with starting a business or making a down payment for their dream car.

So financially speaking, actions that can show love include: contributing to shared savings goals, paying for something your partner needs without being asked, helping manage household finances, discussing financial plans openly, investing in their future, taking on extra financial responsibility to ease their burden, and making thoughtful gifts related to their financial needs or aspirations. 

Love is amazing so exhibit love even in your finances. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Money or Love?

What’s Your Love Language?

Author

Peter Asare Nyarko

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Welcome to your Some Questions to Ponder

1. 
. PAPERWORK In an emergency, could someone in your family quickly find your important papers— birth certificate, bank account records, health care directive, insurance policies, credit card records, will, etc.?

2. 
NET WORTH Do you know your current net worth and how you hold title to your various assets?

3. 
CASH FLOW MANAGEMENT Do you have enough cash available (in bank accounts or easily cashed securities) to cover yourself and your family for at least six months of no work?

4. 
BUDGET Do you and your family have a useful, written monthly budget?

5. 
EXPENSES Do you think you’ll be able to pay ‘all your bills’ on time every month for the next 12 months without a paycheck?

6. 
EMPLOYMENT BENEFITS Do you understand and, if appropriate, utilize all your employment benefits to your advantage?

7. 
GOALS Do you know what’s really important to you; and have you written your personal and financial goals for yourself and your family?

8. 
FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE/RETIREMENT Do you know when you expect to be able to retire / become financially independent?

9. 
FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE/RETIREMENT Do you know how much income & assets you will need to enjoy your retirement years; to live a quality life, including any special gifts or bequests to family, friends and nonprofits?

10. 
FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE/RETIREMENT Have you calculated the amount of money required to reach your financial goals?

11. 
MAJOR EXPENDITURES - Have you thought about and made a list of major expenditures you can expect over the next five years and where the money will come from to pay for them?

12. 
INVESTMENTS - Do you think your current investment plan(s) will meet your retirement needs?

13. 
TAX DEFERRAL Do you think you are making the best use of tax-deferred investment plans for retirement?

14. 
TAXES Do you know the income tax rates on your last earned dollar?

15. 
INSURANCE / RISK MANAGEMENT Do you think you have the right amount of insurance— life, health, disability, long-term-care, auto, home/renter’s, fire/flood/earthquake, liability, etc.—not too little, but not too much?

16. 
ESTATE & GIFT PLANS Do you and your family have current wills?

17. 
POWER OF ATTORNEY Do you and your family have a current Power of Attorney?

18. 
ADVANCE HEALTH CARE DIRECTIVE Do you and your family have a current Advance Health Care Directive?

19. 
CHARITABLE GIVING Are your favorite causes or nonprofits included within your estate & gift plans for a bequest, planned gift, or as a primary or alternate beneficiary for life insurance or retirement plans?

20. 
TRUSTS Do you know the advantages and disadvantages of using trusts?

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